As it is known to all, the power of words can be equal to a gun. When you say something ill to someone else, you’re, to some extent, setting up a destructive relationship with him. Instead, if you inspire others by uplifting words, the contribution to strengthen your friendship can be significant. However, whether the words are anti-ear or not, there is no doubt that they do succeed in making their way to impress you at all times.
众所周知,语言的力量等同于一把枪。在你对别人说一些不好的话时,在某一程度上,你和他就建立了一个消极 的关系。相反,如果你用一些令人振奋的话鼓舞他的话,对加强你们的友谊有着显著的贡献。然而,不管语言是否中听,毫无疑问,他们总是能让你成功的表达自己。
Personally, there are specific words that impress me a lot. It's the final exam in junior high school. Unfortunately, I failed though I had made a good preparation before it. I never knew whether others laughed at me at that time. What aroused me, though, were the words from my classmates--It never rains, but it pours--from which I benefit a lot. I guess that it's his inspiring words that set off my inner motivation to feel good about myself again.
就我个人而言,有些特定的话让我印象深刻。我初中的期末考试。不幸的是,虽然我之前有好好的准备考试,但我并没有及格。当时我并不知道别人是否在嘲笑我。是什么唤醒了我呢,是我同学说的话——祸不单行——从中我受益很多。我猜是他鼓舞人心的话,激起我的内在动机让我对自己感觉良好。
From my own perspective, realizing that we human beings are in need of positive reinforcement, I attach great importance to speaking inspiring words whenever it is needed.
从我自己的角度来看,我们人类需要的正强化,我非常重视在需要的时候说鼓舞人心的话。